The purpose of this research is to present a sociological model of social identity based on women's religious understanding with a view to family efficiency. The approach in this research is qualitative and the data base theory method has been used in the analysis of experimental data. The participants in the research were women who were aware of religious foundations, concerned about the research problem, and belonged to different social, educational and occupational classes of Isfahan city, based on the logic of theoretical saturation, a semi-structured interview was conducted with 25 of them. The findings showed that social patterning as a central phenomenon in this model, due to causal factors including religious socialization, the frequency of maternal role, background factors including physiological differences, family, education and intervening factors including the expansion of women's role-playing in society, the existence of differences of views about the role of women in creating and based on the four strategies of real interpretation of women's social status, explanation of femininity capabilities based on gender differences, strengthening femininity values and prioritization in women's social roles has been realized. Acceptance of role playing has social and family consequences to strengthen the role of women in family efficiency.